Myself included I was sent a email saying I had too many Emails friends and favorite requests.
Although a rule breaker I woyld abide by the rules had I been informed Other Members told me the block is for one day I had a photo sub and photographer there needed to converse So I set up another temporary profile I contacted support numerous times explaining this I was ignored and blocked from the site My blond counterpart has two profiles This is a porn site purely with nothing but scammers and disrespectful rude users and staff Grow some balls really Sorry, this sounds like a fake review.
it is not specifically a dating site, but no one objects if you contact people that look interesting. Some advice : first of all, no *censored* picture for your profile picture. second, if you contact someone that looks like you someone might want to talk to don't be an ass about it. Mistymouse ( my nym on either site) I have had 0 luck with Collarspace and Fetlife.
be polite, and friendly, like you would be if you were to meet someone at a party. They make me hate myself more than anything, no one ever messages you.
If you are a dominant the odds are less daunting, though still against you.
Go to events to learn techniques and develop a reputation in the community as a safe player and a decent guy.
Try Collarspace.com, large dating site, and Fetlife.com, the latter will give you information about local events as well , amongst other things.
Be careful, a lot of ignorant people and some scammers on Collar Space. Fetlife is more like facebook for kinksters, with a lot of bells and whistles.
I am uninterested in going to Fetlife munch's because of some social anxiety, but that seems the only way to maybe meet someone. There are not huge numbers of people and it is a long process to find the right people.if you are a submissive male, your first experiences will almost certainly be with professionals.There are few dominant women and many submissive men and the odds are incredibly against you.If you are hot, you may get some free play at parties and events.If you are not hot but personable, networking within the community can eventually get you play.Adult Friend Finder (AFF) owns and both are full of fake profiles.If you sign up for the free version your mailbox quickly gets messages from people who cannot have contact with unless you pay.I made an account for "perversions.com" because some bogus review site said it's good for BDSM people, then it turns out to actually be a website called eroticads.com, which I searched and had several bogus reviews, then I found actual user reviews that verified everything is bogus.ANYWAY, I can find normal women offline easy, but where do I find women into BDSM or fetish-related stuff?If you are dominant, you are matched to other dominants and there is no way to change this.The orientation is not even an option when filling out what you are looking for, beyond Gay, Straight, Bi.