You should get noticed for what makes you, well, you - because you deserve it.
WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING“Want to have ‘hell yes’ first dates?
Nothing strikes the fear of God into a party girl like the following question from her adult lover: "When do I get to meet your friends? Isn't that why the temporary instant debit card was created? The absolutely insane texts you get on a regular basis from your friends don't always reflect so kindly on you.
Oh yes, you just ADORE a lovely cozy evening in on a Saturday night. Real life example: "Happy Sunday, I just took mushrooms! "You're a little too comfortable in those handcuffs.
So what happens when the quintessential party girl finds herself falling for a living, breathing grown-up? It's a fascinating-yet-terrifying experience that unexpectedly holds a mirror up to our reckless lives.
As chronic avoiders, we're just not used to seeing things as they are.
You've either burned a bridge with a bartender, know too many questionable characters or have kissed too many of the people you will surely encounter (this is why I will never take a new date to the West Village). That moment when you're walking into a new bar with your new lover, and the bouncer stops to say "hi" and ask you "how you felt after last Saturday night."You look at him with big, crazy, vacant eyes and reply: "Uh, excuse me, kind sir, have we met...? When you're partying with your friends, you miss the stable, fulfilling conversations and civilized dinners you share with your hot grown-up lover -- yet when you're with them, it takes everything in you not to go into a serious state of FOMO. We are wonderfully impulsive, gorgeously WILD, beautiful and madly sexy girl-creatures who live in the glorious f*cking moment. We drink champagne like it's water and wear fishnet stockings to the office. Until we are disrupted by the cool, cunning touch of love. Two worlds that rarely meet are suddenly staring each other dead in the eye. We don't live in reality; we live in pretty, glitter-adorned bubbles.all while doing everything in our power to shield them from our questionable lifestyle.Somedays we pull it off, and somedays we f*cking don't.You can hardly pay your rent on time; you live in dire fear of the credit card decline, yet you have more sparkly eye shadow than David Bowie did in his prime.In fact, you're so in love with your sparkly eye shadow that you are also starting to realize you don't ever really take it off...You begin to feel sweeps of insecurity, penetrating into the deepest part of your heart. And, more importantly, why do you still not know what it is?What the f*ck is wrong with you, and why is it that you've attended every cool party in lower Manhattan -- yet you've never even experienced even a mild taste of a healthy relationship?The sudden presence of a real adult in our worlds puts a tiny pinprick in the shiny pink balloon we call home.Suddenly, reality crystallizes into our frame of vision.