But while dating apps and websites might help people find lasting connections in the digital world, there are those who are looking for less formal, less polite ways to hook up.That might be why we've seen the rise of the no-nonsense hookup forums on Reddit.Tinder might have a bad rep for being the "hook-up app," but the results from their latest Modern Dating Myths survey show that Tinder users are more likely to actually go on dates (duh) and lock down a committed relationship than offline-only daters.
If you go to /r/randomactsofblowjob, for instance, you'll find a ton of same-sex requests.
If you've ever been strung along in the "what are we?
" convo purgatory for agesssss, you know it's a very particular form of emotional torture.
With more than 53,000 subscribers, /r/randomactsofblowjob might be the most enthralling subreddit for hookups, simply because the rules of engagement are so specific: You post your age, sexual identity and what you're looking for, accompanied by a short description relaying any notable details. '"These subreddits are also somewhat unique in that there are way more ads posted by women for men than you would assume.
Maybe you're a 78-year-old woman woman looking for some fun, or maybe you want to give three blowjobs at once as a throwback to your college years. It's archaic, but it's direct, and that's the point."After my girlfriend and I had a discussion about making our relationship open, RAOBJ was one of the first places I thought to look for casual hookups, because it was so simple, straightforward and honest," subscriber Ryan, 26, told . If you go to /r/randomactsofblowjob or /r/dirtyr4r you'll see a lot of posts by straight dudes, but you'll also see a healthy number from straight women, as well as queer and trans people.