It's basically an online community of perverts and misfits who get into online fantasy and cyber sex like games.
This is not a site for anyone who is really seriously about hooking up in real life.
However I called their customer service and they were at least ethical and decent enough to offer me a prorated refund, so for that I am thankful.
There are many of these horrible sites out here who don't have real customer service people and who wouldn't give you back one penny of your money.
One more plus: the majority of girls are amazingly beautiful!
Despite reading many positive reviews of this site made by people who are pretending to be experts I strongly disagree with them.
I really tried to give this site a chance but there is just no other way around it, it's a horrible site in every way and it would be unethical for me not to warn others.
I found it did not help to post other photos of myself since they apparently were only seen by gay men who paid for a membership or older out of shape women that I had no interest in meeting. Many of the main profile photos posted by their members are quite revolting.
Also I did not see any clear explanation as to how one could cancel a so called upgraded membership and this leads me to believe it would be a hassle to stop automatic renewals.
And even if you just live your life on the internet Adult Friend Finder is still a very dark and lonely place. There is this broadcasting feature where they allegedly have real life people, usually performing some sort of sex act, this is all psychological games for the desperate and lonely because there is a chat feature there to give the erroneous feeling that you are some how connecting to the naked person on the screen but in reality it's a waste you would be better off just buying a porn video with out the smoke and mirrors of the chat screen.
The other bad part about this site is that it is way more expensive than other sites and then after you pay your money they then try to scam you out of more money for extra features that would just be a given in other sites, things like making sure your emails are seen. You're paying all that money but then you have to pay more to make sure your emails are seen!!!!?? I was going to give this site one star because one star is really what it deserves.